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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you search DCUM threads you can find references to online tools that act as communications buffers for people in divorces-- you both communicate 100 percent solely via the particular web site or app or whatever it is. (This doesn't cut off direct communication with kids, it acts as the only conduit between the adults.) There are a couple of these tools that get mentioned in posts here. They allow both people to contact each other only within that tool--not on their own personal text or email etc. It's been cited as a way to put distance between parties when things are contentious, a place where all communications from both sides are archived so things can't be conveniently "accidentally" deleted, and a way to ensure neither person can say "I never received your email/text."

Can someone out there tell OP the name of one of these tools? Sorry I can't, OP.

Sounds like you and your ex need something like that. I would ask your lawyer about it. It sounds like the lawyer wants you to collect evidence that your ex is a problem? Is that right? is the point to try to get different custody once you leave the military, maybe?

If ex is horning in on agreed-upon FaceTime talks that are supposed to be just you and the kids, ask your lawyer if it can be put into writing that each parent doesn't participate in the other's calls/FaceTime/Skype etc. with the kids--that will be easier to do if you can also agree that all communication between the two of you takes place only via an online tool in writing. Then you have standing to say, "Sally, this FaceTime talk is with DD. Please only use the website to send questions about school supplies." And so on.[/quote]

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