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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is what it is. She is close to your potential future in-law and always will be. Accept it or move on.

I know you feel like you're competing with her for your in-law's affection, but it doesn't have to be.

It's all in your mind that they favor her over you as a daughter in-law, and it might well be. You cannot control their lives.

They can have their favorite daughter in-law, while you have the most important person, your BF/future DH.
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This.

Also, a relationship is serious when you're contemplating marriage. You're in that phase where you're exclusive but not committed to each other forever yet. It's natural to not feel too secure, because you don't yet have that level of commitment. Wait a little while to see if your relationship lasts, then see how you feel.

I have to admit that I'd be uncomfortable if my DH had a previous wife and she was closer to his family than I am. Although I was extremely close with a previous BF's mom, I drifted after he broke up with me because I wasn't going to take up that place that should be for him and his SO. It does seem a little weird that the ex is hanging on, but it appears that there's nothing you can do about it.

Good luck OP and I hope you come to peace one way or the other soon![/quote]

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