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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have a sit down with his parents and brother and tell them you're very irritated by their continued contact with their former daughter-in-law/sister-in-law and see what they have to say.[/quote]

According to my BF I should not even bring it up.  They would not respond well.[/quote]

So.
If it were your boyfriend still continuing contact with his ex would you go thru them or directly to the source?
You'd tell him he needs to cut it out cause it's bothering your right?
Well...it's not your boyfriend it's his family.  So go to the source and tell them they need to cut it out cause it's bothering you.[/quote]

This is the worst relationship advice I think I've ever read.  Do this and you'll be dumped by COB.[/quote]

That's the point.  If she's not comfortable/confident enough in her relationship with her BF's family to tell them what to do then obviously she's not in a position to have any say-so in what they do.
They can talk to and have dinner with and go clubbing with whoever the hell they want its none of her 6-month-trial-period business.[/quote]

I don't really get the point. One should NEVER been confident enough in a relationship to feel that they can tell their SO's family what to do or have say so in what others do. WTF

We can be in a relationship for 6 YEARS - hell 60 YEARS. You should never feel comfortable approaching my family and telling them what to do. Telling them how you feel? Maybe. But in this instance, how OP feels is a problem that lies within HER - there is nothing the family is doing that is in any way inappropriate.[/quote]

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