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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a saying for this, passed on from FIL I never met, who used to say to my DH when he was a kid...”Bobby, don’t do one job and make two as a result”. In your case OP, “don’t do one job and make a dozen plus a trip to ER, as a result”

Holy Fck I’d lose my sh*t daily. If that makes me controlling, then I wear that badge!

If he’s a great dad and great lover than there’s that. Does he function well in his career? Financially an equal?  If not, I don’t know what to advise. I mean wow, don’t think I could stick with it, but my DS is almost off to college. The chicken juice is a real deal breaker! Feel bad for you, of course, but so much for him. Can’t imagine he does this with malicious intent, which means he’s unaware and that could signal something. I never throw a diagnosis at things, but he sounds like ADD combined hyper/inattentive. Drug him up! [/quote]

Op here. Yes, he’s exceptional at his career, and he is financially stable.  He just has his very narrow areas of focus where he excels, and practically handicapped in everything else. It is both a choice on his part, and also just how he’s built. He has very few priorities that he will choose to focus on, while everything else quite literally seems to disappear for him. He depends on me to make his daily life work, but he’s very successful and capable in other areas of his life.

And he most definitely does not have add or adhd. He absolutely has an atypical brain with all kinds of crazy quirks, but I’ve never come across any diagnosis or condition that fits him.[/quote]

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