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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand no sex when sex was fine the year before. Low sex drive women or men? I understand we don't all need or want intimacy like that as much as some people and might desire it more than other people. But, having good sex and then nothing? I say he/she is having an affair and making up BS to cover it. Sudden childhood issues surfacing? Nothing but BS. Ask most people who had this happen, and in most cases there is an affair.[/quote]

It is because often, the sex was not "just fine" the year before.  Some of us keep pain hidden for a long, long time.  Some of us convince ourselves we are fine, when we are not.  And then, sometimes we stop being able to be "fine".  Sheesh, you really need to educate yourself on this issue.  Go talk to a therapist.  Read a book.  You never know when you'll learn that it was your spouse, child, friend who has been through hell, but has been putting on the "I'm fine" face for too long.  I hope you never have to experience that.[/quote]
While you get sorted out, what’s the big deal in acknowledging your spouses needs with a well deserved hall pass?
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