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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Question here:  50 years old and have never in my life hit on a married woman, nor has a married woman ever hit on me.  I'm probably an 8 on the 10 scale and not married.

So how do these affairs start?  Do men actually hit on women they know are married, or are the women initiating these things?  Serious question.  [/quote]

Formerly married woman here, a little older than you.

I had a brief fling (not really an affair) with a guy I met online, in an AOL chat room (dating myself there!) who literally flew across the country to spend a weekend in my area and we met up at his hotel, went out to eat, played pool (one of his favorite activities that i also enjoy) and had some great sex, actually got together two days in a row, then never saw each other again.  We were both married at the time.  My marriage had been sex-free for years at that point.  (BTW, I had another online friend, military office stationed at the Pentagon, do a background check on him before I met with him, just to make sure he was who he said he was mostly.)

Interestingly, a different married guy I had been chatting with a lot online at that time told me that if I would cheat on my husband it was time to end the marriage.  I agreed with him and started proceedings to do just that.[/quote]

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