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[quote=Anonymous]Could it just be that the biological father now wants a formal agreement because mom is not living up to informal terms? If she missed visitation, did not return when said, failed to pay for daycare.... there are a million parenting decisions that maybe she was doing fine with and then stopped doing fine on, and bio dad got fed up. If she had been messy and not reliable, the court could rule that dad has primary custody temporarily while they make a formal agreement. I have heard of people stipulating that new boyfriend / girlfriend can’t meet or be around child until a certain amount of time or until both parents agree (keeps kids from meeting 100 boyfriends as mom dates and give bio parent chance to learn of new relationship before kids do) and maybe bio dad wants that, so until the new agreement is made, new husband can’t be around kid. It is possible that there is a dark and nefarious situation but there could also be a total nothing story. These type of arrangements can get super messy and people often put in a lot of clauses to make things hard for the other side. It does not mean that you let the new husband watch your kid for four days, but you may be creating drama where there is none.[/quote]
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