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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you a high earner? Would she SAH? I would never agree to 3-4 kids without both SAH AND money for outsourcing. We stopped at 2 for this reason. And DH and I both wanted 4 until we had 1. Then we decided to stop at 2.[/quote] OP here. She doesn’t want to SAH. We both earn a good income ( HHi together is 300k). I’m an only child and always wanted a big family because it gets lonely. I’ve always wished I had sibilinga to share my childhood experiences with and a built-in best friend. We did talk last night and she said the thought of having that many kids ina shirt time worries her, and makes her feel like I won’t be happy if she/we can’t do that. She does want kids, but max of 2, and I’ve decided to compromise. Hearing your stories made me realize I may not want 4 when I have 1-2 and realize how hard it is. All is good.[/quote]
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