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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, that sounds SO fulfilling!  Are you a Southern Baptist by any chance?  You sound like a wonderful "helpmate".
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You sound like you haven't had any sex for a while. [/quote]

Just had to comment on this.  I was raised strict Southern Baptist (although an agnostic now).  I was told repeatedly by my mother that "women are made to be slaves to their men".  Seriously.  That exact phrase.  She meant it.  Whenever I had a boyfriend come over, she always stressed to them that I would wait on them, get them food, etc.  I love my mom, she's a super nice person, would never be mean to anyone.  We also had a rule that if you didn't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all.  I can't remember anyone in my family ever even saying something mean to another.  BUT, my mother is a doormat personality, and although I don't believe in any of the religious stuff I was taught, I absorbed it and am also a doormat personality.  I was taught to always walk a few steps behind a man.  I still do it  to this day (I'm in my 40's).  Drives my husband crazy, but it's a subconscious thing, I just automatically do it.  [/quote]

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