Reply to Friend is having affair - wants to bring "other person" on a group trip

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Friend is having affair - wants to bring "other person" on a group trip"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Right now all you have is second hand information.  I'd go on the trip, and if A and B engaged in PDA on the trip, I'd ask A what was up, and let them know I wasn't okay with hiding their affair from the spouse.

Has C talked to A about this?   Is there a chance that A and spouse have an open marriage?[/quote]

OP here:
Friend A told me that Newbie B has an open marriage with their respective spouse. Friend A told me this because they knew I previously had an open relationship with one of my ex's and wanted to talk about. When I started asking more probing questions about the friendship between A & B, Friend A clammed up and changed the subject suddenly.

Friend A is awful at lying; I could see their faced get flushed over Skype. My spidey sense was tingled and I reached out to Friend C, since Friend A was being weirdly evasive. I was willing to give the benefit of the doubt that Friend A and their spouse may have an open relationship - no judgment at all on my end. Friend C confirmed that Friend A and their spouse do NOT have an open relationship, that the relationship between A&B is secret.

Friend A and Newbie B are opposite genders.[/quote]
Nothing has changed my opinion still. Friend A has not admitted/confirmed the affair and Friend C is still third hand information. Friend A is an idiot to bring AP along btw. If you tell spouse of Friend A anything, you're just a gossip stirring trouble and he will not believe you and anger Friend A. In a court this is not evidence. Are you willing to "tell" on your friend on just what friend C is telling you? Go on the trip.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics