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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't go.  I guarantee you that even if she changes her mind and goes you will not have fun.  Get some credit instead for supporting her in her decision.  Not because you agree her body looks bad but because you agree that it's her decision to make.[/quote]

So their life should be driven by his wife's perception of her body. What if she decides she never wants to go out again because she hates how she looks - OP needs ot support her decisions and just stay home? Why does she single handedly get to make decisions about THEIR vacation and his only role is to support her in whatever she wants.

This level of enabling is unhealthy.

OP, Iw ould go without her. If she is too unwell to go, then she can go into inpatient treatment or stay with parents.

If this was a man saying he was cancelling his wife's vacation because of his depression / anxiety no one would be telling his wife to sit at home with him and support him in that decision.[/quote]

I kind of agree. It’s one or the other here. There is no middle. Either she’s being manipulative and immature with her vanity-tantrum, or if she’s really that serious—this is an inpatient level issue. Normal people don’t cancel vacations (with all the consequences to others, including the financial consequences) over something like this. [/quote]

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