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[quote=Anonymous]What kind of parent would your partner be? Would he be ALL IN and willing to do this sh!tty parts as well as the fun parts? Is he going to change the diapers, do grocery shopping, remember to make that doctor appointment/handle that insurance claim?

Or is he the type to enjoy the fun parts and leave all the rest up to you?

I've been a single mom for 8 years, and my new partner wants a kid - for HIM I would do it. For anyone else? the answer would be a resounding wholehearted HELL NO. Why? Because the guy I'm seeing now would jump in with both feet, get his hands dirty, and PARENT. He would take sick leave when the kid was sick, he'd clean up puke, change diapers, do midnight/3am feedings, remember the doctor appointments I forgot, do laundry, buy clothes, wipe up spills, etc. and ALSO do the fun stuff. He'd be a true partner. I've already seen it with how he interacts with my existing child, and we've talked extensively about all aspects of parenting together. We're not ready yet, cause we're not even engaged, but I have a feeling we'll get there.[/quote]

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