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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been separated for 2 years.  My ex cheated but is dragging things out.

I really had a hard time for the first 6 months even considering dating.  I still felt married, and it felt wrong.  I ultimately dated a little after that, but stopped again this year.  I'm so mentally exhausted and, despite my ex's treatment of me, still feel weird about beginning any relationships while married legally.  I also don't want to put any of the drama that comes with this on another person.  Ironically, I am not religious at all and my ex is.  I have been very surprised at how heartfelt my vows were.  Hopefully that will make me a good partner to a better person later on.  [/quote]

Why don't you forgive the guy? [/quote]

NP. Once a cheater always a cheater. Plus she said he’s been putting her through a lot for two years. That’s not love. [/quote]

Thanks NP. I am the writer of the original post quoted.  At some point I will completely let it go (the best I can) - meaning I can only control my reactions/responses. I don't have to ever think how he's treated me has been ok, but I can try to release it (or some bs).  However, he has not sought reconciliation and that is fine with me.  I could never trust him, nor do I want to be with someone who does not respect me.  [/quote]

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