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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with the pp who suggested avoiding all contact without making some sort of dramatic announcement. If you husband wants to continue to have contact (with or without the kids) that is outside of your control, but I would not plan or participate in any contact. I think you need to talk frankly (perhaps separately) with both kids about this harmful dynamic. DS15 needs to know that this is not his fault and that he is a good person and deserving of love (if it seems like the grandparent's behavior is really bothering him, maybe he should even do a couple sessions with a therapitst). DS14 needs to know that it can feel really good to be favored, but that it's a hurtful way to operate, and people who play favorites can also turn on them.[/quote]
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