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[quote=Anonymous]OP,  I lived your exact situation. I was the favorite grandchild and my siblings were completely ignored by my grandparents.   My grandparents were local. We saw them maybe once a year because of the crap that they pulled. They would often get me a gift and show up with nothing for my siblings.   I was offered things and my siblings were told they couldn’t have them by my grandparents.  The reason was that I was the oldest, and being the oldest I was deserving of their love and their money, but my siblings were not ( simply because they were not first born ).   My parents absolutely would’ve divorced over this, except my father agreed with my mother and pulled back on his relationship with his own parents.  He was treated the exact same way by his grandparents and finally was able to see how damaging it really was.   When we were teenagers we were given the choice as to whether not we wanted to see my grandparents. All three of us chose not to.   I can safely say that my siblings that I actually hated them for what they had done.  The lack of relationship was their fault. They’re gone now… None of us shed one tear.[/quote]

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