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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. I think you need to accept that as adults, we can choose the people we spend time with. The reality is that for whatever reasons, your sister/s don’t want to spend time with you anymore. Like the other PPs, I’m finding your victim mentality and constant excuses to be exhausting. And I wasn’t even affected by you growing up. I would be moving on too.

Focus on trying to be a person who adds value to others’ lives and find some friends and let your sisters live their own lives.[/quote]

I understand this. I think because I was so caught up in my struggles I probably didn't empathize with them as much as I should have.

I am also trying to work on how I can be an asset to a person instead of being the drain.

And I want to let my sister be. She made a very conscious decision not be be affiliated with me anymore.

I am trying to make peace and move on and leave her alone.
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Have you asked the sisters who are still talking to you how THEY think you can be the best sister you can for them, now?[/quote]

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