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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think I am living in lala land. I believe we lost our way and that my wife just needs reminding what we had and what we have. [/quote] Your wife cheated on you, says she does not love you, and is still seeing her AP. IF she is invested in the therapy, which is a big “if” already, it can only work if she stops seeing her AP. Your friend understands this. Your wife can keep stringing you along, agree to therapy, etc. because she has everything she wants right now - no annoying divorce proceedings, no reduction in lifestyle, etc. Your friend is right that your self worth is low if you are tolerating this situation with any hope that your marriage will survive. If you were just biding your time until you could divorce, that would be different, but you’re actually believing that your marriage isn’t over. Also your female friend probably has the hots for you and this is a way for her to communicate that and see how you respond. Provided she’s not married, my recommendation is to start a relationship with her and leave your wife. [/quote] THIS! THIS! THIS![/quote]
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