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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you win on this and she goes, then you lose. [/quote]

This. My Dh and I have been together 20+ years and the only thing we have really argued about was the expectation that we would not only travel for a sibling’s wedding, but that Dh and both of our toddlers would be in the wedding. I wanted to leave the kids at home with the other set of grandparents and enjoy the wedding. Dh felt it was important for our toddlers to be there and rude to decline having them in the wedding. I sucked it up but there was a lot of arguing and I missed several wedding events to stay with sleeping children in our hotel room, and ultimately, I missed the wedding ceremony because I had to remove the kids when one wouldn’t stop talking during the ceremony. A SIL felt obligated to help me with the kids so she missed the ceremony too, to help me wrangle the kids, which made me feel even worse. There was no upside to taking our children. If I’d also been 6 weeks post partum, there’s no way I would have gone.[/quote]

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