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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hugs, OP. My DH is the same way, right down to "you better just pretend you heard", which makes things challenging since I have really bad hearing and DH mumbles. Only difference is that DH is really good with our DC, I'm his punching bag instead.

I'm not a fan of using sex as a tranquilizer because nowhere else am I expected to have sex in order to be treated like a human being. I've also found that it doesn't really work. He'll hop out of bed and immediately start criticizing me for some perceived injustice.

I really don't know what the answer is. Every day I inch more and more towards divorce, especially since I want another child and I don't think I could have another one with him. [/quote]

Thanks for the response.  I’m sorry you have to deal with this too.  You are so right that we shouldn’t be expected to use sex in order to be treated nicely. Someone up thread mentioned sex, which yes, can be an issue for us, but it’s complicated. It is very hard to have sex with someone you resent and also that feels like your child. If I wasn’t breaking up fights between him and my FIVE YEAR OLD all day, maybe I would feel more in the mood. But then when we don’t have sex, he’s even moodier. It’s a difficult cycle. I’m not withholding to punish him, but I just don’t feel attracted to someone who I feel so criticized by.  Thanks for chiming in, it helped. [/quote]

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