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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife is a sahm. Everyday she will massage our toddler and sing songs for at least 30 minutes before naps and night sleep. She makes him fancy smoothies and lots of fish and vegetables dishes. They go to a parent child program everyday Monday- Friday in the morning for a few hours. She even takes him to baby yoga and they apparently do foot massages for the babies there. Is any of this normal? She seems very happy staying home with him but I am worried he's getting spoiled. [/quote]

As a mom of grown kids, I think she is obsessed. Of course, we all want our kids to eat well but when I made smoothies for the kids, I also made them for myself and DH.  I use to read to my children as it created a routine but my DH also read to them. I did the mommy & me stuff, one day a week and I planned family activities, that included DH. If you feel left out, and she continues obsessing over your son, you will find yourself looking elsewhere (either with another woman or a hobby or with your guy friends or your job). Your son will be the Momma's boy that woman won't want. You need to get more involved. Many marriages dissolve when the kids leave for college because there is no was bond between spouses. Don We lived 't let your son get in-between your marriage. I think you need to have a talk with your wife, like, I want to take DS to class  or spend Daddy & me time. [/quote]

What a load of.... My DS was a very, very active toddler. My options were to do something with him, or stay at home while he fussed and eventually screamed. So, we went to the pool, almost every single day. And all the other SAHM did it too! We lived in a tropical climate, so we would alternate, someday pool, someday the beach. And imagine, these toddlers played with each other too, not just with moms! And most of them are now in college, great students, and we are still happily married! She feeds her kid and takes him to activities and she is a SAHM who can do it, and clearly does it when DH is at work. There is just no pleasing DCUM harpies. And when did OP say he feels left out? So much projecting and predicting a future of a total stranger on DCUM. From all I got is that she has morning activities for her toddler, which also serve as socializing for her, that she cooks very well, and that most of these are done without any neglect of her poor, needy DH(according to you?!) Guess what, many working spouses do not want to go to playdates on the weekends. If anything, DH is worried that she isn't spoiling him, not the son. Spoiled at two? It is called loved and cared for.[/quote]

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