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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am OP and I like all the candor in this thread.   I think I narrowed down my problem to one of not really knowing what I want -- I like sex but am not willing to wait for The One (and am not keen on marriage, again) and yet, I want the companionship of one great guy, which doesn't happen when your profile is unambiguously inviting NSA sex.

So, I either have to deny my libido, or deny my heart/head, or hope that I fall into bed with the one that has it all -- which is sort of what an earlier poster said was the 20's MO.

I guess I need to get out more to do non-date stuff, which will be better for me anyway and give me more to talk about on dates.....if I ever have them again!! [/quote]

Yes, I think many of us are in this situation. I think you are clear on what you want, but as a previous poster said, it seems much easier for men to meet many women who fit their criteria and not the same the other way round for us. I just had this play out recently as I mentioned before-met someone I really liked online for the first time ever but I guess had sex too soon (second date). I never ever do that but it felt right on this one occasion because I felt he was different. With retrospect, I should have waited as I obviously got judged for that. Golf and sierra club are maybe the way to go![/quote]

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