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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My guess is that he has grown distant due to the nagging. Have you looked at yourself to see if you deserve to be treated the same way now as you did when you first met him?[/quote]

I bet after the kids came he felt completely ignored. Can you blame him for feeling different? He's being treated different. Make sense?[/quote]
yes because men are just big babies who need mommy's attention, like all babies do.[/quote]

Wow! Someone who really doesn’t want a relationship is hanging out on a relationship forum for no damn good reason.[/quote]
ha.. I'm happily married. Our marriage has never been stronger. We've been through the tough toddler times.  My DH is a fantastic dad and husband, and it makes me love (and have sex with) him all the more.  He goes the extra mile for his family.

During the early years of kids' lives, it was tough. I was too tired after giving so much to the kids and working FT.  Yes, DH was not happy about it, but guess what.. he stuck it through and tried to be understanding. That's a real man.

I see way too many man-babies who don't want to take half the load, but then still expect the DW to meet his needs.  Lots of selfish men out there.[/quote]
Wait. You just said your DH is not a man baby, he carries his weight.  Yet despite that, you gave all you had to the kids and your job such that you were "too tired" for DH. You stopped short of saying it but I will: you rejected him for sex alot. (That's what you mean, right?)

Sounds like YOU were the selfish baby. He did his fair part, yet you did not really care about his needs. Lots of selfish DWs out there.[/quote]

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