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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think the people pointing out that your kid's are spoiled are dead on.

But I can also relate.  My sister in law has a community pool and lives an hour away.  We get pressured to take our non-swimming toddlers to that pool.  Yes, it's a great pool.  Yes we go once a summer.  But it's FAR. And my kids are just as happy at the spray fountain a block from our house which is a lot less work for me.

What I don't like is that it's somehow my responsibility to make my SIL feel like she's "getting her money's worth" at her community pool.  And if we don't agree to come all the time than somehow it's being "wasted".

All that said, I do think just telling your kids that your going to grandmas.  Oh and by the way, pack your suits because there's a pool.  If you don't want to swim, fine, but we'll be sitting by the pool for an hour, let's go, no opinions please.[/quote]
Op again, this is our exact situation. My mom calls every single week. She’s also about an hour away. I get that it’s a novelty to her, and we DO visit and use the pool from time to time to make her happy, but considering we have a pool at the middle of our own community, driving an hour to swim every week doesn’t make sense. Also, this pool is freezing and the kids just don’t like it for more than 15 minutes. But yes, we too get the guilt trips and are made to feel like the move there was just for us to have pool access.

My kids are anything but spoiled, but the cold pool isn’t novel to them. They’d rather ride bikes on the bike trail, play tennis, wander the woods, etc, than swim in a cold pool.[/quote]

So don't think of it as driving an hour to go swimming.  Think of it as driving an hour to have a meal with your parents by the pool.  I bet there are BBQ grills near the pool--bring hamburgers and hot dogs and have dinner or lunch.  [/quote]
Every week? [/quote]

It doesn't have to be every week.  Every other week?  Every three weeks?  Find something that is doable, and do it.

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