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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a wife who did have an affair, I would say NO. Do not do it. I regret my choice with every fiber of my being. It was wrong, selfish, hurtful, and created even more of a mess in my marriage than there was before I did it (and ours included very little sex too). I lost all integrity and self-respect for myself. Yours is a difficult situation, no doubt about it, but there are healthier choices to make on how to deal with it than banging another married guy.

However, I get the feeling you've made up your mind already, and if that's the case then nothing I say will deter you. But the time after my affair was truly my rock bottom and the worst time in my life. Please don't do that to yourself and your family.

Good luck.[/quote]

I was also a wife who had an affair, and I also regret it. I do not regret leaving my marriage. It was a bad marriage and we were terrible together. What I regret is the way I left it. None of my legitimate reasons for leaving the marriage mattered to anyone. That should be reason enough to do things differently if things like respect for marital vows are not meaningful to you right now.

Your marriage sounds like a nice friendship, not a marriage, and if you want to leave, please don't do what I did. Leave with integrity so that later, you do not regret the way that things went down.[/quote]

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