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Reply to "What rights does a SAHM have when it comes to a move for the family breadwinner?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think there are some very valid reasons why a SAHP would object to a move. Things like: - family is close by and elders may need care soon, or already do - kids are in good schools - object to moving to a city without good medical care when you live in a city where that exits (especially if anyone in family has special needs) -objecting to making a move to a higher COL city, where things would a family's financial situation would change for the worse [b]Weather, friends (for socially healthy people), liking the area or the climate or amenities are things to consider, but it is not really fair to veto on this basis alone.[/b] [/quote] This. I see a bunch of people above who said their moms hated new cities so much that they got divorced. Sounds like their relationships were tenuous to begin with, because a good marriage should survive a few friendless years in Cleveland. SAHM doesn't get to veto a good financial/professional opportunity because they have friends and a pool club they don't want to leave. [/quote]
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