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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the OP of the recent post where[b] a woman my DH dated 40 years ago has some kind of contact with him every seven years.[/b] The only thing I can see is yes, I understand that technology means we can find our HS or college sweetheart in minutes, but my thinking is the past belongs in the past. Curiosity is one thing and I do sometimes wonder what ever happened to certain guys, but two way contact is another. But I finish with one thought: nobody contacts someone after many years for no reason. [/quote]

Interesting, PP. Every seven years like clockwork, over a span of 40 years? Sounds like she has, in her own head, some kind of pact with herself -- "I'll check in every seven years and see if..." whatever.

[b]How does your husband respond to these contacts?[/b] I admit it, I'm purely curious. It sounds like something out of a novel or a movie. "If you're still free in seven years, meet me under the clock at the train station on date X..." I wonder if she's just healthily keeping up with old friends (not as flames). [/quote]

DH ignores her. She dumped him and, you guessed it, seven years after the dumping she called him (before I met him) and they had dinner together. He told me that she said a bunch of things that were really insensitive towards him (like bragging about dating other people) and that was over 30 years ago. He wants nothing to do with her though he admitted that he finds it humorous that she even looks him up. [/quote]

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