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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is such a weird question.

I also think it's weird that people think you ideally postpone marriage so that you can do things like establish your career first.  I'm struggling to see why being with a great partner would negatively impact your career?

I think some of you see a spouse as nothing more than a strategic tool to get financial stability or a committed womb, depending on your gender.  [/quote]

Careers bring out a self-awareness, maturity and stability in someone fresh out of college and trying to find their self.  These traits  help set a good foundation identifying and maintaining a relationship with a partner who may be more compatible with post-career you. If you’re going to work in retail all your life, and your partner will too, it may not matter so much. But in DC, you wait to see you’re potential before you lock in someone else’s potential too. You don’t have to be in the final stages, but by then you should both have a pretty solid trajectory on where you want to go, and if that person will be a good fit. Also, a lot of people change their career risks for family needs and regret it later in life.better to figure it out first before marrying for life.[/quote]

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