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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Someone who is mentally healthy and has no anger issues, or at least has fewer unresolved anger problems.
Someone whose parents had a healthy relationship, including healthy communication and affection (as opposed to none). 
Someone who deals with any baggage from their birth family (especially if abuse took place), and doesn't try to put any of their baggage (stuff that happened before I was in the picture) on me. 
Someone who doesn't gaslight/play passive aggressive games.
Someone who doesn't see me as their scapegoat; and is willing to get mental help if they need it, instead of burdening me with what happened (or what thy think happened) to them. 
Someone who knows how to communicate.
Someone with a sense of humor, likes to have fun and enjoy themselves and likes us to have fun together, and doesn't take themselves too seriously all the time.

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this is all called "healthy communication."  no games, no PA, no gaslighting, no anger, no blame game, no victim playing, no dumping on others. can speak with parents, affectionate, ability to communicate, have fun. [/quote]

Sucks that some people come from effed up families, and try to carry on that behavior, instead of getting help.[/quote]

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