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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn't have my first BF until 30. I married him. I was also really insecure about my body. Face is fairly attractive. Oh, and I was a virgin, and never even really kissed before. Happily married now 17 years.  Change came when I loosened up and started to just enjoy my life.[/quote]

So how did you get over your insecurity enough to loosen up?[/quote]
PP Here.. I think it was just a combination of stuff, but basically, I just started to try to enjoy my life rather than worry about stuff I couldn't control (which I do a lot of).  I made a friend who was also single and was new to the area, and we started to do stuff, enjoy life.  I was doing better financially, so I could really travel and buy nice clothes. I just generally started to enjoy my life, and be comfortable with myself.  I knew my DH a few years before we started dating, but not very well, sort of an acquaintance more than friends. One day we met up and hit it off. Rest is history.

You know, it's funny, now that I look back at pictures of myself (in a bathing suit no less), I realize I actually had quite a nice figure, though I have really small boobs. I would love to have that figure back.

Don't waste your life. I regret all the time I spent with such low self esteems.  I'm not saying I don't have any issues now. I still do, but I try not to let it run my life.[/quote]

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