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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need a car with automatic braking.

But otherwise, I think you need to do something about this bad driving. You have a really bad history of driving. If you caused a really bad wreck, I'd think they could sue you saying you were a known hazard on the roads due to your history. Do you need glasses?

I also think you've posted about this before. [/quote]

I have. I can’t believe you remember.

In my defense, it has been a while. I think I went at least a year without getting into an accident.[/quote]

To give you perspective, I have been driving for 35 years and have had 3 accidents that I was responsible for (I have been hit 3 other times by other drivers).

First, you and your husband need to communicate better.  The silent treatment and iciness is not a good response.
Second, you need to sign yourself up for driving classes.  You're a SAHM with school age kids.  You can find the time when they are in school to take driving classes.
Third, you and your husband need to agree on vehicles.  If you have two vehicles and your family needs a large car, then your husband needs to drive it until you finish driving school.  You can drive the smaller car.  After you finish your Driver's Ed, the you can decide whether to switch back.  If you have only one vehicle, then as another PP suggested, get an after market driving/parking assistance device to add to your car.  Alternatively, you can also have after-market back up sensors installed that will give you audible beeps when you approach something in reverse and let you stop before you hit the object.

You need to be proactive in suggesting and signing yourself up for driver's ed lessons to learn to drive and park better.  You can't just say sorry and do nothing to change the dynamic.  That's something my kindergarten kids do and we're already teaching them that sometimes sorry just isn't enough.  You, as an adult, need to do better.[/quote]

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