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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish I'd learned decades ago to just go ahead and make the decisions for him. It's an anxiety thing to continually question your options and second-guess choices. I think we as women are conditioned to be easygoing, defer, etc., and what my husband really needed all along was someone to have a backbone when he gets this way. I no longer involve him in decisions that would bring on the analysis paralysis (obviously excluding things like buying houses) and if he has a problem with a choice I've made he deals with it.[/quote] OMG, you just perfectly described my DH condition: analysis paralysis! Genius.[/quote] My DH has a certified anxiety disorder. Even with medication, the continuous second guessing plus control issues due to the anxiety is driving me nutso! Contemplating divorce. It is only going to get worse.[/quote]
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