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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Together total of 14 years, married 10 years. Both of us are 38 years old

For as long as I can remember my husband has always wanted kids. He's commented to family about it for years, friends you name it.
We've known each other since we were 22 years old, started dating when we were 24, got married at 28 years old. Said we'd have kids early/mid 30's.

He still talks about it, we both do, but he is making no effort to physically try to have kids.  He says, it will happen when it happens. Well, we are 38 and it isn't going to happen when it happens if we don't try. He doesn't seem to get this.  We've talked about it and he ALWAYS goes back to, "Yes I can't wait to be a dad, but I'm not forcing anything. It will happen when it happens."  To avoid explicit, we do everything very often except finish the deed in the "right location".

I'm at a loss

Can you please ask him to explain how [i]it can ever happen [/i]if he is not finishing in the 'right location'.  Please ask him and let us know his response.

Good luck. Very frustrating for you.

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