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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate when they try to hide the sex of the spouse. [/quote]

I hate it too but seem to see it more on DCUM lately. I'm sure posters do it out of concern that if they are ID'd as a woman posting about a man or a man posting about a woman, they'll get a pile of the unfotunately common garbage that comes up on DCUM: "You must be a horrible wife who nags and withholds sex from your husband" or "You must be a horrible husband who hides things from your wife and doesn't do your share with the kids, house, etc."

So many posts like those, ALL the time here. Or posts determined that every OP must be the problem in any situation. The other classic: "Huh. Wonder what your spouse's side of the story is!" -- usually said with no further attempt to offer insights or actual advice.

This knee-jerk meanness and baiting is probably what prompts some OPs to try to hide genders. Agreed, it's annoying, but not as annoying as the inevitable responses saying, "If you posted here, you must be the one at fault/trolling/whining/nagging."[/quote]
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This is exactly why I kept the post gender-neutral. Why does it even matter?[/quote]
It is harder to imagine the situation and not so easy to read, but your dirty bedsheets after masturbation helped me assign genders. [/quote]

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