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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, is there is a big issue in your marriage that creating a power issue? Like one of you makes or has a lot more money than the other, or has more education or comes from a more well-off family?

If no, then did one or both of you come from controlling families? I had somewhat controlling parents and I realize that some times I'll try to talk someone out of something they want because it's not something I would do, and I then I realize that wanting X is really not a big deal and that they are allowed to "want" what they want.[/quote]

No OP, but this is how my husband is.  I don't think he really even realizes he is picking an argument with his spouse over something so stupid.  It's just sort of his way of talking.  
If I say something like "I am allowed to start th coffee before I get in the shower, you don't drink coffee anyway, and it does not affect you," then he will stop.  But if I start getting into a discussion about why I want my coffee ready when I get out of the shower, he can go on and on back and forth.  [/quote]

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