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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. It sounds like I'm not completely alone and that just refusing to debate the small stuff is a perfectly legitimate coping mechanism. Thank you! To all of you who said "death by a thousand paper cuts, YES! Exactly! Someone asked whether DH's family was controlling. They were not. If anything, my parents were the controlling ones. DH has said to me that one way he "receives" love is someone taking the time to convince him of something. I kind of see his point of view, but only if I want to convince him to do something with me. Big things like where to live, car, children (how many and when), how much vacation to spend with family, sure. We need to be on the same page. I just can't do it on the small things. [/quote]
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