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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Deep love is cultivated.

http://www.businessinsider.com/lasting-relationships-rely-on-2-traits-2014-11

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/06/happily-ever-after/372573/

When you meditate on what you love about someone, you start to love them more. Not quite "fake it to make it" but more like building a case in their favor and it being true. When my spouse sleeps, sometimes I work on studying spouse's face and attributes. "I love ____'s eyes....smell, the way they hold me." And I practice what I would like more, I hug more, and holds are lingering.

You really have to be intentional and fight for the love you want. The more you feed into your distaste, it grows like a baby. You nature negative feelings and this negative baby will grow. The same is true if you nurture what you love and plant seeds of what you want to love to grow.[/quote]

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I'll also say again what I said somewhere else in these posts, which is that if you're looking for the more classic dreamy romance you might not even be able to recognize it if you see it. [/quote]

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