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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]End it. I asked my husband if Kids was a dealbreaker when we were dating. I told him I was not sure I ever would want them and wanted to know if he needed to have kids. He said no so I married him. After a year of marriage, he pressured  me constantly to get off the pill. First time of unprotected sex I got pregnant. We have two kids now and most of our marriage has been sexless. We are not happily married and I am strongly considering divorce.[/quote]
NP. Wow, this is my exact situation. I had the first kid under unrelenting pressure from DH. He turned on the pressure for #2 as well and I decided I wanted to give DS a sibling. I love the kids. But DH? Every time I think of the life I have now versus the life I could have had, I hate his guts. Our marriage is sexless, acrimonious and I’m going to cheat as soon as I think I can get away with it. [/quote]

PP here. Wow that you have the same story. I love the kids...but I resent DH. It is really difficult to stay married but I am trapped and it seems best for kids to stay,[/quote]
I’m the PP who responded that I am in the exact same situation. I wonder how many of us are out there. I hate being a working mom of two. I miss my old life so badly. And I do feel trapped. A two-parent home is probably better for the kids, but I hate my current life so much. Splitting custody and getting some child-free days each week would be so great, gosh.[/quote]

PP again. I have actually told my DH I would have more free time if we were divorced. I hear you. But for the kids both of us together is better. It totally sucks.[/quote]

This site us a great insight into the female I'd.

Dump, OP, ASAP, otherwise you'll end up divorced from one of these adulterous ice fiends.  And of course they'll still push for custody and child support just to #%^* with you even though they hate their own offspring.[/quote]
No, they hate their husbands. Try to keep up.[/quote]

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