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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are people bringing sex into this? Ours has absolutely nothing to do with sex. And I speak for dh too. I wouldn't say our love is deepest right after sex[/quote]

I feel sorry for the people conflating what were talking about with sex.

To me it says that they've never come close to feeling it because just the idea that what I'm talking about sex is crazy to me. We have sex...but it is a symptom of being deeply in love. Not a cause or a fuel.[/quote]

It is related. I like the way you put it: for women it is a symptom of being in love. But for men, it might be the reason for being in love.

your love doesn't have to be deepest after sex. it is a part of the whole, an expression of love. Sex is completely a part of it. Not sure why you folks want to separate it.[/quote]

I think the push back is to people saying that what we're talking about sounds like sexual infatuation. That is just not what it is for me. I do enjoy sex with my husband and it brings us closer and it is a part of our relationship. But if he was injured or something tomorrow and we could never have sex again it wouldn't change my love for him. Just like it didn't change in the 2-3 months I was out of commission after having kids.  [/quote]

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