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[quote=canadaman815]This sounds like a difficult situation, and one that I can somewhat relate to within my marriage (minus the fertility issues). Having kids is a huge decision and huge responsibility, and so it's very important to understand each others' feelings on the matter and be able to arrive at a consensus over time. Have you considered couples counseling to help you both talk more honestly about your feelings on the matter? You will also need to come to a decision about how committed you are to her; do you care about kids more than her, or does she satisfy you regardless of whether you end up having or adopting kids? Do you prioritize marriage over your future goals, or vice versa? You may need more time to think about questions like that, but they are definitely important to consider. Praying it becomes easier for you. [/quote]
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