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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Way to go keeping the condo OP and giving him an ultimatum.

I will say this, 6 months doesn't seem like a super-long time for me as I know parents who have been supporting slackers for years. And since he has clearly put in an effort to make his daughter stand on her own and win you back, I think you should work with him.

A) Maybe get her a minimum wage job at a local store like Target or TJ Maxx and move her and the kid into a small apartment.

B) Assuming this is a low COL area let your BF help her pay half her rent and you can get a new renter in May to stay in the house.

I WOULDN'T let him move in with you as suggested above and the daughter keep the house while he still pays it - recipe for disaster.[/quote]

OP cannot get someone else a job. Where does this idea even come from? Further, if OP were to step in and somehow get her a job and get her an apartment and arrange for her BF to pay half the rent for her, that would be at least as enabling as what the BF is doing now, which is a horrible idea.

OP, you're making the right choice by moving out. This situation isn't likely to get better, and it's definitely not going to get better if the other people involved have no incentive to change it.[/quote]

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