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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you're taking the correct course of action.  Don't let your guard down just because he's making some positive changes.

Move back to your own place.  If you still want to see him, you can continue to date while living in two different places.  I wouldn't let him move into your condo, because then he'll essentially be giving up his house to his daughter and may even bring the grandkids into YOUR condo for babysitting.  Don't allow that drama into your own space.  If the daughter ever moves out, wait at least six months to make sure the change sticks before combining households again. [/quote]
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Agree with all of this. 
Good for you OP for sticking to your guns![/quote]

While I think it's nice that he's taking care of his daughter (must be hard to "throw her ass on the street" when she's got two kids with her), don't let him move in with you, whatever you do.

I think your gut is telling you to dump him because, not only are you not his priority, your wants and needs don't even register to him.  You moved in with him - this was YOUR home too, and he basically told you to shove it.  I'd be pissed too.  You are young and you can find something better, with less baggage.[/quote]

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