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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you not discuss and consider this before you got married to someone who is active duty? It seems weird that the idea of this is just coming up now. Contingency plans haven’t been discussed with your ex at all? [/quote] This!! You knew this day was coming. How has this not all been figured out?![/quote] What is the point of this question? Woulda shoulda coulda. Doesn’t provide any useful info.[/quote] OP again. It was discussed both pre remarriage (and pre additional children) and with ex. All ex had to say was that he wanted me to agree to her staying here. But, I did not want to give up the right to participate in the decision regarding what was best for her at the time of the move. The conversation was dropped. I am actually open to her staying and did consider it and what that would look like in terms of custody arrangements. However, when I talked about it with her she was very clear that she wanted to come with me, which at this age I was honestly not expecting. [/quote]
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