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Reply to "If you and your partner wanted different #s of children, how did you come to terms with it?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Indon’t Know if I agree with everyone else. If your situation (financial and otherwise) was bad enough to make a second child impossible, you would not resent your husband. Since you do, my guess is that you can probably make it work. Since you had agreed before on 2 and since the wife does most of the work anyway, I say that you have more power in this decision. Would he hate to have another or does he simply think it would be better to stop at 1? My DH was happy with one. I wanted two and then he agreed... now we are contemplating a third. Some men can change their mind easily and having a sibling is such a great thing....[/quote] I completely agree with this. DCUM loves the "fewer wins, hard atop." line, but in a case where one partner has effectively pulled a complete bait and switch I'm inclined to disagree. And an only child vs having siblings is DEFINITELY a complete bait and switch [/quote]
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