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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Omg this is the most obvious no ever.[/quote]

It's not, though.

The problem is that we should have said no right away. But now it's in the actual planning part: picking a house and the week: and NOW we have to say no. I feel like we let it go on too long.

We have not paid for anything, though. No deposits. [/quote]

O.k. now IS the time to say no to this.  Say no before anyone puts down deposit money.

[b]Family should not be pressuring you into overspending like that.[/b]  It is o.k. to say no.  In fact, that is the right thing to do in your situation - you can not afford this.[/quote]

OP here and they are absolutely NOT pressuring us.

In fact, I've even helped to find the house! STUPID ME! It's only now that I'm thinking "wait. This is going to cost $1K and I don't even really like my family and OMG do I want to take my babies to the beach and they won't sleep for a week and OMG WHAT HAVE I DONE."[/quote]

It sounds like it's more than just money on your part.  You are dreading the idea of having to deal with two babies around family that you aren't used to spending so much time with.  Instead of being a relaxing vacation for you, you worry that you will be forking out money/possibly going into a debt for something that won't be much fun for you and could wind up being an ordeal for you instead.

It might be better to plan a long weekend if at all possible.  [/quote]

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