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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Omg this is the most obvious no ever.[/quote]

It's not, though.

The problem is that we should have said no right away. But now it's in the actual planning part: picking a house and the week: and NOW we have to say no. I feel like we let it go on too long.

We have not paid for anything, though. No deposits. [/quote]

I think it's pretty easy, even so. You tell them that in planning, you've looked at what you can afford and what you can't, and you're sorry, but it's just not an option this year. Are there concessions that the other family members could make that would make it possible for you to go financially such as if your parents paid your part of the housing bill? If that is the case, maybe say that upfront. If not, then just tell them that you've looked more practically at your situation and it's not possible this year.[/quote]

It is very possible that if we back out then my parents will offer to pay for our part of the house. Then there will be another thread, "How to get out of a family vacation." LOL. [/quote]

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