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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why?  He's 40, that's why.

If you don't like it, you'll have to do some manual labor, get some meds, or trade-in for a new model.
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Wait, I thought men lasted longer as they got older? You’re telling me that they’re quick on the draw in their 20s *and* their 40s? I only got ten decent years in the middle?[/quote]

A man should take longer as he gets older.  It's one of the wonderful things about getting older.  Getting to a point where you have nearly total control and can hold off until she's had hers, maybe even a few times, before you pop.

I can't fathom why PE has started in your H but the bigger problem is you are not being satisfied, and I'm sure this is no fun for him either.  Perhaps a change in how you two approach sex is in order where he makes it all about you first.  Start with a nice message for you, fingers and oral with you getting off before anything else happens.  Sorry if too explicit for this forum, but that's where you posted the question.[/quote]

It's not true that a man should take longer as he gets older. It's actually been the opposite for me, and for other guys as well. Same thing happened to me when I hit 40. Really messed with my head. The fix has been exercise and just relaxing and enjoying myself and not worrying. The exercise helps with breathing, which is critical to maintaining. Relaxing also helps. Talking about it in a nonjudgmental way will help -- I'm sure he notices and isn't happy about it. Just one of those changes, but not irreversible.[/quote]

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