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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I would go more often if I could attend in a way that allows me to hang back and get a feel for the faith and practice again at my own speed and on my own time.

I do not go because I get aggressively greeted when I go -- if it's a place I've been before or if it is a new place. There seem to be people assigned (or self-assigned) to "make people feel welcomed." I don't. I feel pushed.

And when I read replies like some of the ones above, I am reminded all over again why I chose not to keep spending time with people like that in an organized way anymore, in the first place.

So I do the good work that I can within the life that I have, and I am the best person I can figure out how to be. And I am perfectly delighted that there are people who find support in those places I do not, and I wish you the very best with it.[/quote]

Thank you for this.  I am part of the membership group at my church, and I think we push the whole "greeter's ministry" too hard.  I keep saying that some people are introverts, some are unsure of themselves or how long they want to keep coming, etc. and that our overly welcoming style is hard on certain people.  Not everyone wants to meet and be "connected" with other church members immediately.  I am going to bring your words to our next meeting.  And I hope you find a church home, if that's what you seek.[/quote]

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