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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a high-earning, attractive, fit woman in my late 20s. My friend is in her mid 20s but could pass for early 20s. She's a nanny and she's attractive in a plain way and also very fit/ petite. She has NO trouble getting dates. I don't understand it. She's plain looking. She doesn't wear makeup most days. Her job pays around 20-30k per year. I think it may be her personality. She's shy, sweet but very funny once you get to know her. I catch men checking her out constantly. She doesn't dress flashy. Her last boyfriend looked like an European model. He was beautiful and they were together for a 5 years! She has always been able to attract men I find attractive. [/quote]

Guy here:  said before here, but she is probably really attractive.  Many women have zero idea of what men actually find attractive.  (“Plain” is a concept that doesn’t really resonate with men, I have no idea what you mean by that.)

My DW, for instance, often describes very unappealing women as “attractive,” including some rather plump and unappealing women, and extremely sexually attractive women as “unattractive.”  Here, the simplest possibility is probably the correct one, she’s just good looking in a way that appeals to men that you don’t see.   [/quote]

Mid-20s, fit: it's hard for her to be not good looking.[/quote]

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