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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thigh gap - first wife put on a lot of weight with kids
Earner - I didn't want the single provider stress
10 years younger so our libidos? matched a little better[/quote]

you suck and are incredibly superficial.  
you should have worked at it.
I hope you eventually seek forgiveness for being a complete jerk[/quote]

How is this different from the women who said they wanted their second husband to be physically fit, have a good job, and want sex? Are those women superficial jerks too?

Frankly, "fit, employed, and interested in sex" are not unreasonable requirements in a spouse. [/quote]

I'm not the PP you're responding to, but "thigh gap" and "prioritizes health" are not equivalent.  Especially considering he goes on to say she gained weight from having his kids.  If you don't see what's superficial about that, I can't help you.[/quote]

Another NP. We’re not talking about his current online dating habits. We’re talking about how he thinks his wife getting “fat” was sufficient reason to break up his marriage, even though he had kids with this poor woman. Also, he makes it sound like “fat” means a size 12 because she doesn’t have a thigh gap.

Yes, he is a horrible human being. I bet he’s one of the jerks here bragging about smashing with 20-somethings (as if anybody here believes that, but I digress).[/quote]

[b]If she prioritized health, she would be fit and would not have a thigh gap.[/b]

The source of the weight gain is irrelevant. When women gain weight from having kids, they are just as obligated to take it off as a guy who gained weight from drinking beer.[/quote]

Except that’s not at all true. I prioritize my health, and lift weights twice a week, plus do cardio, and thigh gap is just not going to happen. My BMI is normal, and I’m very fit and strong - I look amazing really. But thigh gap? Not happening. My thighs touch. Always have, always will. [/quote]

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