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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH and I have been married over 30 years and except for just before and after childbirth I don't believe we've ever gone over two weeks without sex. Right now we average 1-2 times a week (did it last night) and that's been our average ever since we had children. Even before that 3x was likely our high point. We've always been very good friends and he's always been very helpful around the house so I can't give him any grief on that issue. We've both stayed in pretty good shape and my DH has always been affectionate and loving so sex isn't the only time I feel loved. So, I think desire comes from friendship, sharing and that sex is just part of that. If you're not friends and rowing in the same boat I can see why their would be a lack of desire. For me sex is about making love, not just getting laid regardless of how much I enjoy getting laid. [/quote] That might be true, but some women have more libido than others(same with men). It is not necessary the friendship. Maybe you and your DH are the perfect sex match for each other. [/quote]
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